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299: Behind the Sessions: “I’m a Failure” with Dr. Kat

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I'm a Failure: Behind the Sessions

The idea of feeling like a failure comes up often in therapy; I hear it multiple times each week. People who are struggling often feel like they are a failure, and this is heartbreaking to hear. Let’s go behind the scenes and talk about what’s happening underneath the feelings of failure.

I'm a Failure: Behind the Sessions​ Show Highlights:

  • Why being perfect and being a failure are NOT the only two options

  • Failure and perfection—defined and explained

  • Why failure and perfection cannot be the measure of parenting success

  • Why a defense against shame is often underneath the unreasonable goal of perfection

  • Examples of how perfectionism can show up in the parenting journey

  • Examples of what could really be happening to cause you to yell at your child

  • How to have a more compassionate view of your journey

  • How to gain perspective on your negative self-judgmental thoughts

  • Why we need to have more self-compassion—and model it for our kids

Resources:


Tools, Skills and Hacks for New Moms

 

  • Manage thoughts & feelings of overwhelm

  • Learn how breathing & grounding help reach calmness

  • Exercises to find peace