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298: A South Asian Mom’s Mental Health Journey: Missed Diagnosis with Jigyna Patel

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Missed Diagnosis: A South Asian Mom's Postpartum Mental Health Journey

Today you’ll hear Jigyna Patel’s story of missed diagnosis. She and I met recently at the PSI Conference, and I knew her perspective as a South Asian mom of Indian heritage would be valuable for listeners to hear. 

About Jigyna Patel

Jigyna Patel is a Houston-area mother of three, and she is a passionate perinatal mental health advocate who loves her volunteer work with PSI.

Missed Diagnosis: A South Asian Mom's Postpartum Mental Health Journey​ Show Highlights:

  • How Jigyna felt depression and disinterest in her new baby after taking her baby home to much help from family members, but felt much stigma and shame to get out of her “funk”

  • How her symptoms progressed to anxiety, panic attacks, severe sleep deprivation, hallucinations, delusions, intrusive thoughts, and suicidal thoughts

  • How she started the journey with a therapist, but eventually had to move with her baby into her parents’ home for six weeks

  • How medication, better sleep, journaling, and frequent walks helped Jigyna feel better and better over the next few months

  • How Jigyna and her husband had conflicting opinions about having another baby

  • How a second pregnancy (via another IUI) with twins (!) launched Jigyna into deep depression—until she decided to take charge and make a plan

  • How the twins’ birth was an amazing delivery, via C-section, and led to Jigyna’s struggles with postpartum depression and anxiety–but none of the other symptoms from before

  • Why Jigyna became active with PSI after researching and realizing that she had experienced postpartum psychosis with her first baby

  • How Jigyna’s Indian culture impacted her journey with pressure and stigma

  • How she learned the value of sleep and took steps to prioritize her sleep and self-care as a mom of three

  • Why she felt guilty for not “wanting” her pregnancy with her twins at first–and how her group support has shown that this is a common feeling for moms of multiples

  • How Jigyna handled bonding and connecting issues with her babies

  • Highlights of her current work with PSI

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